Who is to blame for the problems in your life? While it may seem inside of our minds that someone else is to blame for our misfortunes or heartaches, playing the blame game truly doesn't work. It may feel like maybe your poor self esteem or poor self image have come from living with abusive parents, family or even an abusive partner. This is a perfectly rational thought, right?
Think about this deeply for a moment. Is blaming others working for you in your life right now? Does it help you to fix the pain of your poor self esteem or negative thoughts? Truly, your outside world is a reflection of the world inside of you. If you allow others to be responsible for your negative thoughts or painful feelings, you are giving them your power. You essentially are squashing your own personal power and growth, and ultimately keeping yourself completely stuck in negative feelings or thought patterns.
I'm not saying that you weren't possibly mistreated. And your feelings of being mistreated are very valid and they are your feelings to have. But understand that in this world, the only person you can control is yourself. In order to make a lasting change in your life, you need to change you. Changing the people you surround yourself with in your life, changing your thoughts, changing your actions and most importantly, changing your reactions to people or situations puts the power back in your hands. Forgive those who’ve maybe wronged you and deciding to truly love yourself is the only way to get unstuck from that pain.
Remember that forgiveness is not for the person who’s hurt you at all. Forgiveness is for you! It’s about letting go, and releasing those terrible feelings, thereby freeing you fully and completely. Once you do this, you will no longer be stuck sitting in that pain, and feeling the need to blame others for it. Take responsibility for your life and choose to live in this moment happily and free from the past. This is the way to take back your personal power and truly heal your life.
If this is an area you struggle in, reach out to me and I can help you do this. Decide today that your worth it! Please share this blog with someone you know it could help!
Love and light to you always!
When you think everything is someone else's fault, you will suffer a lot.
This is an article from an unknown source that I found in my archives and thought it was worth sharing.
The TRUE Value Of TIME…
We often forget how valuable our time is, until we see it all in perspective. Here’s what I mean…
To realize the value of one year, ask a student who has failed a final exam.
To realize the value of one month, ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.
To realize the value of one week, ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realize the value of one hour, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
To realize the value of one minute, ask the person who has missed the train, bus, or plane.
To realize the value of one second, ask a person who has survived an accident.
To realize the value of one millisecond, ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics.
Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have.
Time really is the most precious thing that you have in this world. This goes right in line with the Party Panties article I posted from last month. Don’t waste your time on worries about the possible things of tomorrow that haven’t yet happened and may even never come! And certainly don’t waste your time brooding on the times of your yesterdays, as those days are gone. If you need help healing those times of possible traumas of your yesterdays, then that’s an entirely different story, and I can help you with that.
It may sound so silly but this was truly a hard lesson for me in my younger years, and that which helped me develop cancer twice in my life. Destroying your time by sitting in a negative head space with constant worry are for sure ingredients for epic failure within your body. Lesson learned (sadly raising my hand).
Time waits for no one, so start spending your time in this moment with an attitude of gratitude for all of those little things that are sometimes taken for granted. See for yourself how this sort of thinking can attract more magic, better health and abundance in your life. Decide now that you are worthy and deserving of only positive and healthy moments from here on out! If you need help with this...the changing of your thoughts, I can help! Call me and we can discuss it.
Until next time, be well! Love and light to you!
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